A gift to those you love: this Thanksgiving talk about the care you would want

NHPCO is encouraging families to spend time when they may be gathered for the holidays, to talk about the care they would or would not want. This is particularly important if a family is coping with a serious or life-limiting illness of a loved one. Having discussions about one’s health care wishes is part of advance care planning.

Advance care planning involves making decisions about the care you would want to receive in a medical crisis that might be the result of a serious illness or an unexpected accident. Advance care planning also involves deciding who will speak for you if you are not able to speak for yourself.

An essential part of advance care planning involves having these important conversations with your loved ones. Advance care planning also includes:

• Deciding what types of treatment you would or would not want should you be diagnosed with a life-limiting illness or faced with a serious medical crisis.
• Sharing your personal values and beliefs with your loved ones.
•  Completing an advance directive to put into writing what types of treatment you would or would not want.
• Designating a person as your health care power of attorney (sometimes called a health care proxy) to speak for you if you cannot speak for yourself.

“During the holiday season, families are often gathered together and that can be an ideal time to have caring conversations with loved ones about wishes and priorities for the future," said Edo Banach, NHPCO president and CEO. "This is one of the most important gifts we can give to our families and loved ones."

NHPCO’s CaringInfo.org offers free state-specific advance directive forms and free information to help families talk about the care they would want. Visit caringinfo.org/planningahead.

NHPCO offers a video that looks at issues involved in advance care planning.